flyspell + abbrev changing words while one is not looking

[Dan Jacobson]

I want to type waining, but flyspell et al changes it to wailing when I am not 
looking.

. <escape> / . <escape> / . <escape> / <end> S a y
, SPC h e r e SPC I SPC a m SPC i n SPC t h e SPC w
a i n i n g SPC <escape> <tab> <escape> <tab> <BS>
<BS> <BS> <BS> <BS> <BS>
<BS> <BS> w a n e i n g SPC <escape>
<tab> <escape> <tab> <escape> <tab> <escape> <tab>
<BS> <BS> <BS> <BS> <BS>
n i n g SPC <BS> <BS> <BS> <BS>
<BS> n i n g SPC <BS> <BS> <BS>
<BS> <BS> n i n g SPC C-h l

It doesn't bother me that maybe it didn't have it in its list of ok
words, it bothers me that the combination of modes makes it change
letters after one moves the cursor away. probably an interaction
between these:
modeline says: message mml mc-w fly abbrev fill
I recall I posted on this before.  I think abbrev mainly is on for
mail addresses here in a gnus message buffer.
<BS>=backspace