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Would that be worth it to you to work with someone that you both approve


From: Kaufman Susie
Subject: Would that be worth it to you to work with someone that you both approved of?
Date: Sat, 25 Nov 2006 21:11:16 -0800

This is fairly common even for adult children as divorce has far
reaching consequences for many family members. He choked me and hit me.
It may take time for him to come around and warm up to your fiance like
you said, but for him to have a genuine change of heart it has to come
from him.
We are on the verge of a separation, just teetering from day to day. She
has said or done nothing wrong to him. Healing from the pain of any type
of abuse is usually a very individual journey and the process is unique
to each person.

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So consider and pray, and ask God for the solution that is right for
both of you!
It is something very shameful. I pray that God will bless and heal your
marriage Crystal, and if I can be of further service please contact me.
It may take time for him to come around and warm up to your fiance like
you said, but for him to have a genuine change of heart it has to come
from him.
I feel though that I'm pulling away from my husband, as if I can have no
true respect for him.
For instance, let's say you find a very good therapist but that
individual is a bit further of a drive for you then originally planned.
I no longer trust him.
Some individuals are intimidated or afraid of the idea of going for
counseling and e-counseling offers a positive solution to bridge that
gap. Please contact me again if I can be of any further service.
But, you do need to make sure that you both continue to take the steps
necessary to make your marriage a 'safe place' for you to remain.
I pray that God will bless and heal your marriage Crystal, and if I can
be of further service please contact me. But, argues Matthew Sweet, sex
no longer sells.
My husband is a firefighter. She is beginning to affect my marriage and
my emotional well-being.
I am not a fan of medicating unless it is the last resort.
I've tried to be understanding to his situation. I have been looking to
go to counselors, but cannot find one that will meet our needs. I find
myself being rather harder on my oldest, not understanding why.
But who is truly 'deserving' of anything? But, unfortunately we all have
to live the consequences of our choices whether pleasant or painful at
times.
Also, he tends to drive while intoxicated which scares me for obvious
reasons. And you may need to be prepared to be flexible on some issues.
The little child inside all of us wants to love our parents, and even
longs to give them respect which they sometimes don't deserve from our
perspective.
My reliance on God is my only answer for my own healing.
Even with all the information we have given it as a society over the
past several decades, domestic violence remains a common struggle for
many individuals and couples.
I am in need of help though, and I do have a hard time feeling intimate
with him now. Leaning on God in this situation can bring much comfort
and strength, and God can aid and heal your marriage relationship.
I have been looking to go to counselors, but cannot find one that will
meet our needs.
Traditional batterers' therapy consists of both individual therapy in
conjunction with group based accountability therapy. The little child
inside all of us wants to love our parents, and even longs to give them
respect which they sometimes don't deserve from our perspective. She is
beginning to affect my marriage and my emotional well-being.
Though medication might help you cope with things in the short run,
you'd just be medicating a symptom instead of working on the cause. I
pray that God will bless and heal your marriage Crystal, and if I can be
of further service please contact me. Even with all the information we
have given it as a society over the past several decades, domestic
violence remains a common struggle for many individuals and couples. I
think it has something to do with the fact that I am so sad and
depressed about my problems with my marriage that I almost take it out
on him. It may take time for him to come around and warm up to your
fiance like you said, but for him to have a genuine change of heart it
has to come from him.
Online counseling is also more affordable than traditional therapies and
may be an option to consider.
Even with all the information we have given it as a society over the
past several decades, domestic violence remains a common struggle for
many individuals and couples.
You both need some real professional help in the matter and I really
encourage you to keep pushing for marriage counseling to help you two
get a handle on the issue and sort things out. You could also work on
ways you can incorporate some type of group component or other viable
alternative into your treatment so you can get the best of what that
offers too. I think it has something to do with the fact that I am so
sad and depressed about my problems with my marriage that I almost take
it out on him. However, this is when they put into practice what they've
learned before while in therapy as to help them along. The individual
component of the treatment involves being able to focus solely on
yourself in one-on-one therapy, as to uncover and deal with why and how
your abusive behaviors manifest themselves.
The individual component of the treatment involves being able to focus
solely on yourself in one-on-one therapy, as to uncover and deal with
why and how your abusive behaviors manifest themselves.
And, some people deal with it much better then others. I understand that
my father's disease may have an effect on my sensitivity, but it hurts
more every time we have an episode.
Even if you do so, there is no guarantee that he'll agree to things.
This isn't the first time we have had this problem. Some individuals are
intimidated or afraid of the idea of going for counseling and
e-counseling offers a positive solution to bridge that gap. Many people
don't seek help due to deep feelings of shame, guilt and fear, though
keeping oneself isolated isn't the answer because historically domestic
violence escalates over time if untreated. It may take time for him to
come around and warm up to your fiance like you said, but for him to
have a genuine change of heart it has to come from him. Without some
clear boundaries and continued work on the issue of change, there is a
high likelihood that a recurrent abusive episode can occur.
As for insurance coverage information, you would have to check with your
insurance carrier as all insurance companies handle that differently. I
wish you all the best for a peaceful outcome Mike, and for your family
to truly heal from the pain of family discord and divorce. On the
contrary, your choice to stay with him at this point in time reflects
your love for him and commitment to your marriage. I am not a fan of
medicating unless it is the last resort. And, you probably know by now
that if your husband does not want to go to counseling you can't force
him.
And you may need to be prepared to be flexible on some issues.
Your husband also has the experience of having been in Iraq, and it
could be that some of this overseas experience is tied into his old
familial domestic violence issues coming up to the surface. Traditional
batterers' therapy consists of both individual therapy in conjunction
with group based accountability therapy.





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